Frozen Assets

October 25, 2008

CG13B2 Are you finding yourself with way too much on your to-do list – and not nearly enough time to actually do it?

Many people are stretched for time and the last thing they feel like hearing at the end of a long day is, “What’s for supper?”

With just a little planning, a couple of hours and a small amount of freezer space, the family cook can answer this question with a smile.

Use these simple recipes to set aside some frozen assets and reap the rewards in the busy days to come.

BONUS BURGER

This quick and easy recipe from my book, The Occassional Cook, will yield dinner tonight – and two different meals to sock away in the freezer.

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Starting from Scratch

October 3, 2008

I have been married to my VERY patient husband for 27 years. The mere thought of losing him and starting over is overwhelming.  Even for a professional organizer. : )

 Starting From Scratch 6-6C-1 I came across a wonderful resource for someone who finds herself single again — aptly titled Starting from Scratch When You’re Single Again.  I’ve included a chat with the authors — Sharon Knudson and Mary Fran Heitzman — to introduce you to this very important ministry.

Q: Mary, why did you write this book?

Mary: I’m neither divorced nor widowed, but I, too, have a heart for those who are starting from scratch. My father died when I was 16, and although she was never aware of the impression she made, my mother was an inspiration to me. While my faith in God faltered, hers remained intact. I watched how she made decisions—how she continued to put one foot in front of the other—how she guided my younger brother and me.

Today I work with my husband in the financial services business. We meet many women who, because of the loss or absence of their spouse, are faced with decisions that were once shared.

I wanted to offer all of these women hope and encouragement so they wouldn’t feel alone or overwhelmed. I want them to know that others have survived and that they will, too. I also want them to know—if they are young mothers—that their childSharonandMaryFranren are learning how to cope through the example they set. Children are not harsh judges, but will admire them for their willingness to learn new skills, and for listening to, talking with, and leading them even when the road is strewn with uncertainty.

Q: Sharon, do you think widows and divorced women are treated differently? In what way?

Sharon: When my marriage failed after thirty years, I was filled with tremendous guilt and shame. I had been a devout believer in Christ, an active leader in my church, the parent of two beautiful daughters, and the kind of person who loved both my own and my husband’s extended family. It was as if I had received a ten-foot tall letter “F” on my imaginary “Report Card of Life.”

Widows don’t carry that kind of shame around, although they are consumed with grief, as was I. Friends and relatives know what to say to a widow—they offer counsel and comfort.

Q: Mary, as you talked with women, what did you find helped them cope with their situation?

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